Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Storytime. Part 8.

{Read previous posts here.}

The final breakup was the hardest time we'd ever been through.  But in hindsight, it was also the most necessary.  We needed to take the time to fix the issues we'd ignored for so long and this was the only way for it to happen.

My company sent me on a trip to Florida a few weeks after the break up and it gave me quite a bit of time away from Mr. BUB to reflect and decide what really needed to be done.  It was obvious to both of us that our story wasn't over, but it certainly couldn't continue the way it was.

So I returned home with a new perspective.  And I laid down the law.  If we were broken up, we really needed to be broken up.  No more phone calls, no more hanging out.  We had to figure out what we really needed.

In a sense I would say that we both really matured over the next month or so.  So when my birthday rolled around, we decided to spend some time together.  I wouldn't say that things immediately clicked, but with some work we were able to actually assess the issues that caused our previous splits and deal with them.

And we were back together.  For good.

But don't think even for a second that this story is over...

11 comments:

Lyndsay said...

Like always, I love reading your continuing story! :)

Krystal said...

I like story times. :) I'm ready for more! You're such a TEASE ;)

Michelle said...

I agree with the girls above sentiments....

I love reading your stories...I need to hear more...I'm tired of waiting.

I will call you.

:)

Happy Tuesday!!!!

Ashleigh said...

Damn you, again! JK! love this story so far!

The Miskell Family said...

Yay! I totally agree that break ups need to happen...same thing with us!

I hope theres LOTS more posts to this story time... like when a man and women love each other...! Ha!

tara said...

break ups suck but are really necessary sometimes!

Amanda said...

Look at you being all mature and stuff! Glad you got back together for good...otherwise there wouldn't be a cute little Skeeter on the way ;)

Megan said...

Love reading these, but you always leave me wanting more!!

Michelle (michabella) said...

Okay, I am finally all caught up!! Breaks ups can be bittersweet. Sounds like it gets better from here!! :) I need like a special alarm whenever you post these!

Jules said...

aw I'm so glad that you guys worked it out!!! :)

Meg O. said...

I am still dying to know what happensssssssss

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